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Inside the Survivor’s Guide
Physical Complications After an AFE

Understanding the Physical Complications After an AFE

AFE Survivor Guide offering important information and resources to aid AFE Survivors in navigating their physical and emotional health after an amniotic fluid embolism.

Physical Complications After An AFE

Recovering from an Amniotic Fluid Embolism (AFE) can bring a variety of physical, emotional, and mental challenges. Survivors often face complex health concerns, including changes to their body, cognitive struggles, gastrointestinal issues, and emotional scars. This journey is not just about physical recovery—it’s about redefining relationships with your body, embracing healing, and finding strength after a traumatic experience.

You might feel like your body failed you because your birth experience didn’t go as planned. It’s okay to have these feelings. It’s challenging to accept that your body didn’t birth the way society tells us it was “meant to.” It’s common to have mixed emotions about your body—you may feel betrayed by it after pregnancy or infant loss, yet also appreciate its ability to heal after an AFE. Your body did incredible things to keep you alive. You can appreciate that you’re here because of your body, even if you don’t completely love it. This perspective, known as body neutrality, can be a helpful way to reframe your thoughts after a traumatic birth. After an AFE, your body will likely look and feel different. Not only are you postpartum, but you may also have scars and marks from the AFE. These can be difficult to accept because they are physical reminders of what happened. It may take time to get used to and accept your new body after an AFE. Here are some affirmations that may help as you move through this stage of healing.  
  • “I am so much more than my body.”
  • “My body did the best it could so that I could be here today.”
  • “I deserve to enjoy myself.”
  • “My body deserves respect for everything it’s been through.”
  • “My body deserves respect for everything it continues to provide for me.”
  • “My body is an instrument, not an ornament.”
Many postpartum women and trauma survivors experience symptoms of “brain fog”. Brain fog is a common term that suggests a feeling of mental fatigue or the inability to think clearly. It can occur if you have chronic stress or fatigue, PTSD, or have had a recent traumatic experience. Brain Fog Symptoms
  • “spacing out” or being unable to focus
  • feeling disconnected from your surroundings
  • forgetfulness
  • trouble keeping up with conversations
  • a short attention span
  • losing your train of thought
  • feeling disoriented
Solutions for Brain Fog Symptoms
  • Follow a nutrient-dense diet with whole grains, fruits, and vegetables, and eliminate processed foods. There is research that suggests following a Mediterranean-style diet may help to correct brain fog symptoms.
  • Improve sleep patterns
  • Exercise
  • Therapy to help with PTSD symptoms.
When is Brain Fog Considered Serious Brain fog is considered serious when it interferes with your daily life or routine. You should contact your healthcare provider if you feel it is getting worse or experience the following:
  • Affects your ability to complete tasks
  • Causes you to forget appointments
  • Makes it hard to pay attention
  • Causes you to get lost often
  • Causes your memory to worsen
  • Doesn’t improve with self-care
  • Is frequent
  • Causes you anxiety

Postpartum hair loss is a common condition that occurs about three months after childbirth and can last up to six months. It’s a normal part of pregnancy and is only temporary. For most people, your hair will grow back to its original fullness. Some AFE survivors may experience acute Telogen Effluvium, excessive thinning, as a result of physical and emotional trauma from your AFE. Make sure to speak with your doctor if you think the hair loss is more than normal or if it is causing you to feel anxious, isolated, or have low self-esteem. 

There are various ways to manage hair loss such as over-the-counter medications, supplements, changing your hairstyle, or wearing headbands, hats, or wigs. 

Types of Hysterectomy Procedures

  • Supracervical/Partial Hysterectomy – the uterus is removed but the cervix remains intact. You can still experience some periods with a partial hysterectomy. There may be endometrial lining left behind in your cervix.
  • Total Hysterectomy – when the uterus and cervix are both removed.
  • Oophorectomy – when one or both ovaries are removed.


Hormonal Cycle
If you have one or both ovaries, your hormones should not be interrupted. Your hormonal cycle will continue. You should not enter into early menopause. Because you have a hormonal cycle, you may also experience the same symptoms of a period. This can be triggering, as it’s often a reminder of a time before your hysterectomy. It can sometimes even be a reminder of when you were pregnant.

Mental Health and Hysterectomy
Losing your ability to carry more children after surviving an AFE is devastating. There is nothing that will take away this grief. It will be something you carry with you, but it will change in its shape and intensity. You may often grieve the children you didn’t get to have and the choices you didn’t get to make.

It can feel difficult knowing that this birth experience will be your last, that there is no redemption, no re-do. You need and deserve the space to grieve this loss, regardless of the number of children you have. You can be grateful and grieving at the same time.

Growing your family post-hysterectomy does not replace your ability to carry more children.

Coping skills such as grounding, breathing, and bilateral stimulation can help when feeling overwhelmed.

Support group on Facebook for AFE Survivors Requiring a Hysterectomy.

Intimacy after Hysterectomy

Visit HysterSisters for more information on Post Hysterectomy Intimacy 

Helpful responses to difficult conversations after a hysterectomy

When someone asks, “When are you going to have another child?”:

  • “I am no longer able to have any children.”
  • “That’s no longer an option for my family”
  • “I don’t typically discuss our family planning choices with others.”

When someone says, “Well, at least you can adopt or try surrogacy.”:

  • “The grief of no longer having the option to carry my children is completely separate from the choice to consider alternatives for growing our family.”
  • “Even if those options are available to me, it doesn’t take away my grief of losing my uterus and ability to carry future children.”

Watch a conversation with expert OBGYN and surgeon Dr. Kimberly Suriano, discussing the physical and mental health impacts of a hysterectomy related to an AFE.

AFE survivors who spend a significant time in the ICU may develop post-intensive care syndrome (PICS). PICS can lead to problems that can involve your body, thoughts, feelings, or mind and may affect the family. To learn more about PICS see the website below:

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