Inside the Survivor’s Guide

Let’s talk therapy!

Professional therapeutic support can help you navigate the many emotions surrounding an AFE and decrease potentially negative symptoms and behaviors. Sometimes getting started with therapy can be challenging. The information below will assist you in learning the various types of support professionals, common forms of therapy, and how to find one that is right for you.


Types of Support Professionals

  • Psychiatrist- A medical doctor who can diagnose, prescribe medication, and offer various therapeutic services.
  • Psychologist (PsyD, PhD) – A doctorate level clinician who can diagnose and offer therapeutic services but cannot prescribe medication.
  • Licensed Professionals and Associates – (LMFT, LCSW, LSW, LPC, LMHC, etc.) A Masters level clinician that can diagnose and offer various therapeutic services.
  • Psychiatric Nurse Practitioners and OBGYNs do not provide therapy, but can prescribe medication.
  • Life Coaches do not provide therapy and are not trained or licensed to work with trauma. They may be helpful with sleep, parenting, or career coaching.
  • Perinatal Mental Health Specialist is a therapist specifically trained to work with women around complex emotions related to pregnancy, birth, and postpartum.

How to Find a Therapist

It may take a few attempts to find the therapist that meets your needs so don’t be discouraged!

Common Types of Therapy for Trauma

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, is a common form of psychotherapy utilized by many therapists to treat a wide-range of mental health concerns. Treatment is centered around how thoughts and beliefs can influence feelings, behavior, and physical sensations. It aims to help clients identify and reshape negative thoughts and belief patterns.

Somatic Experiencing Therapy

Somatic experiencing therapy focuses on a physical body approach, rather than on thoughts and feelings. Treatment may include mindful breathing, sensory awareness, and progressive muscle relaxation with the goal to have sensations in the body help release trauma energy.

Narrative Therapy

Narrative therapy helps form a cohesive story or narrative of the trauma to help make meaning of it. Restorying or retelling the trauma from different perspectives or by adding new characters can add a sense of meaning, or hope to a traumatic event.

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, or EMDR, therapy is designed to resolve unprocessed traumatic memories in the brain.Treatment includes picking a target memory or word that represents the trauma and using bilateral stimulation including eye movement or tapping to reprocess the memory and lower the stress of the event or memory. It can be used on past, present, and future memories. It is believed that recalling stressful or traumatic events is less emotionally upsetting when your attention is diverted. EMDR has been considered an excellent form of therapy for those suffering from PTSD or PTSD symptoms. Not all therapists are trained in EMDR. Learn more or help find an EMDR clinician.

Therapy for Partners and Spouses

Partners and Spouses are also likely to need support following an AFE. Symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder and postpartum depression seem to be interlinked within a couple, as shown in several studies. Of the women who develop postpartum depression, 50% of their partners will also develop PPD. The Men’s Center for Excellence is a great resource for partners/spouses.


Therapy can be expensive and is a common barrier when seeking treatment. While insurance  may include therapy in their covered benefits, the selection of therapists and the services they offer are limited or not available in certain areas. There are a few other options available to seek affordable mental health therapy.

Employee Assistance Program (EAP)

If you work for an employer, your company may provide EAP benefits which allows employees to receive support for mental health concerns that may be interfering with their work. Many symptoms of trauma or PTSD affect executive functioning leaving you unable to prioritize, multi-task, organize, or focus. Contact your human resource representative.

Find more information on EAP counseling.

Open Path Collective

Open Path Collective is a non-profit organization that serves clients who lack health insurance or whose health insurance doesn’t provide adequate mental health benefits. After paying a membership fee of $59, the subscriber will have access to therapy for $30-$60 per session.

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